Why do people assume things they don't need to? What I mean is that, How come, we as Human beings have this desire to know what the other person is thinking and what they've been up to, and when that person doesn't tell you, you come up with a reason (usually untrue) and tell eveyone what you came up with, and tell them it's true. Why can't we just be happy with the explaination the person with the problem gives us. Maybe they don't even have a problem. But yet, if the (let's call it the) problem person, gives and explaination but if we don't agree with it, we have to come up for another reason the person is acting that way. Normally, a person is capable of solving their problems without us, as much as we hate to hear that. The worst conflicts are best solved by the indivdual person. So next time you see a person with a "problem" don't try to solve it for them, but just wait patiently, and when their ready to tell you, they will.