Thursday, April 12, 2007

Can't Smart kids ask questions too?
So, first off let me explain where I came up with this question. I was helping at a local elementary school classroom for 3rd graders. I was helping kids with a worksheet. So I go up to this boy and ask him if he has any questions (he doesn't have anything written down, so I figure he does...) and he replies, "well,.... maybe just a few questions..." and I said, "great, do you have any questions on the first problem?...." and this little girl across the aisle said, "I thought you were smart!" And I thought to myself, "What kind of statement is that!?!?!" and the little girl goes on to say, "smart kids don't have questions", and the boy tries to defend himself saying, "I'm good at math, not English." (we were working on English). And then I was like, "It's perfectly fine for a 'smart kid' to have questions." but they didn't really listen. So I go on to help this boy with his worksheet, and with a little prompting and explaining he gets it just fine. But what disturbed me about this dialog was that the girl thought that smart kids didn't have questions. Hello! How do you think the smart kids got smart?!?! They don't just know! Some of the smartest kids I know were the most inquisitive about everything when they were little. Have questions about something shows that you are interested in something and want to learn more about that subject. If someone isn't interested in something, how are they supposed to know all about it? Basically, everything I know is the answer to some question that I've wondered about. So, to tell the girl she's been misinformed, and in answer to my great question, it is perfectly great for a smart kid to have questions!

6 Comments:

At 6:58 PM , Blogger Lindsay said...

Huh...that wasn't vague at all. =P Well, I think that you're allowed to be a little bit self centered now and then! Otherwise we'd all pine away. Oh, and if you need any help with this "certain situation" let me know! I love Nate!

 
At 7:32 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

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At 5:36 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I never ask questions. It shows weakness when you ask questions. Smart people like me, already know the answers. We just laugh at the dumb questions asked by others.

 
At 7:06 PM , Blogger Dancing Feet said...

And that would completely explain why you practically failed the quiz today in environmental science right Kyler?

 
At 6:42 PM , Blogger Lindsay said...

Okay, so I have no idea what that comment I left was about. Oh well. Here's my real comment: I have been told that I'm smart. I don't know why, but according to this little girl's standards, I must not be! I think I ask more questions in my math class than the rest of the class combined...I'm not even joking! Ask Nate, Kevyn, Nic, Annie, uh, basically anybody in there. I'm so inquisitive! (Or maybe just dumb!...lol.) That was a really good blog!

 
At 9:39 PM , Blogger soccerball said...

Amen, Marie! Hey, it's great to read your blog; I finally found it! Anyway, I absolutely agree. Sometimes I get that same kind of reaction as that girl gave in Band. People have some mistaken idea that musicianship just comes naturally, when really I have to ask millions of questions before things seem to make sense. And in your case, Marie, I'll always think of you as a very "smart" (i.e. alert, sensitive, mature) person in many senses, but especially in your social interactions -- mostly because you ask questions. You are always that person that makes others' days because you take interest in others, shown as you ask them questions. Thanks for your example, and thanks for your blogs! You've got me hooked! :)
-Hannah

 

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